Category: life

  • Dear the Other Woman-  One year later.

    Dear the Other Woman- One year later.

    Whenever I see something turtle-related, I immediately think of you. Someone I never met,who, in one Instagram DM, destroyed my idea of love and my trust in people by consequently ending my relationship. “I’m in a world of pain… and I just need to know.How did you make him fall for you?”You DMed me. I…

  • It’s Monday night and I’m going out

    It’s Monday night and I’m going out

    Over the past few weeks, I’ve had this personal vendetta to start being alone more. It’s funny, the first few months post break-up, it kind of feels terrifying to be alone. Most days you wake up and feel like you’re in a cold-plunge. Everything you did with them, you now do alone. And worst, the memories…

  • Becoming; Women in Bathrooms

    Becoming; Women in Bathrooms

    Time doesn’t exist here.  There are no clocks, no phones.  Here, beauty and smarts count for nothing.  You don’t have to be happy, in a relationship or even liked. You don’t need friends or flowers on Valentine’s Day.   In the bathroom, you are the audience and the show. What other place can you be…

  • Waking up to Change

    Waking up to Change

    Every morning, I start my day in the park. I love how the sun drenches you in that warm, golden glow. A reward for those who don’t lay in bed and who are usually accompanied by a 4-legged friend and a cup of coffee.  My body now wakes up around 6 a.m., an hour before…

  • Trying

    Trying

    When he sees me, he laughs.  “ You look… like a married Jewish woman, ” he says shaking his head. “ More Jewish than you? ”  “ Most definitely,” he says, as we both giggle up the stairs and past the men in bullet-proof vests and caps. “ And why… may I ask, are you…

  • Why India?

    Why India?

    India is a shining example of everything lacking in Western Culture. When I first arrived at New Delhi airport, all I saw was dust. I never expected to be spotting the horn of a Rhino before it charges through flustered fauna or enter a transe-like state as we watch the religious fire ceremony from a…